El amor

¿rehén de la familia?

Abstract

In this work we are presenting some reflections on the main social and historical factors of the modem and actual times that have determined the arisment of the monogamy conjuga1 family, on some of the new characteristics and conditions that under that modernity has the family acquired and, particularly on the rol assigned to love. Also "scientific" speeches are analyzed as speeches of power contributing to rnake the new intakes of the couples and families as true new aspirations of the modem relation of love. The central proposal of the article, is that the modem social order has created, in between some others, a great illusion, to one of love naturally warranted, starting from he family bonds, the one of the sublime, deep and perfect love, as unique and normal feeling, certainly acceptable in between the members of the family and couple, and that constituting such love as an unreachable goal, then violence is generated and doses completely some other ways of assuming and experirnenting this feeling.